Wednesday, August 5, 2009

A True Story...


                                             Who knows...but I like it
                                              Sneezing at Disneyland

                                               A match made in heaven Juno+Bleeker
                                                 College....it's crazy

                                             And strange

                                               Ally psyched about her flotation device.
                                               Family+Ally on Mexican Cruise 09

                                              Grad. 07

                                             Party for 2

                                                            Enjoying nature

                                              See how fun she is....
                                               Scary
                                               Camping 06

Once there were two little ladies who met at the ripe age of four because they happened to live on the same street.....Redbarn Lane in Idaho Falls, ID. They were fast friends and did EVERYTHING together: tramp jumping, doll playing , barbies, little people, Jenny's Palace, dress up, coloring, horse riding, school, church, and an unexpected ride in a police car. Their phone numbers were even on each other's landline speed dials (that was serious stuff back in 1989, there were only three different numbers you could program in to satisfy everyone in the family's needs, three out of everybody, people!).
The next three years flew by and before they knew it the ladies were both seven years old and still inseperable. Then something horrible happened.....one little lady was told by her parents that the family would be moving to Farmington, UT. The newly seven year old was devastated and so was her speed dial friend. They couldn't imagine living apart, so they devised a plan. They decided to be consistent pen pals, they promised to phone each other often, and to visit each other whenever possible. The plan seemed perfect, and the two best friends were ready to defy all odds and stay best friends forever despite their unfortunate locations.

Believe it or not these two stuck to their plan: they wrote, they called, they visited. Sure, they didn't go to school or church together anymore but everything seemed to be going as originally planned. Then....the teenage years began and the two wrote, spoke, and visited less. In the midst of those teenage years they decided to go to EFY together and soon remembered why they had been so close in the first place, they had fun together and they had a lot in common. For instance, neither one of them felt that church was something to cheer, and dance, and do skits about, so they bailed early on EFY, and their four year old bond was once again reestablished.

Finally, the awkward years were over and it was time for college. They loved college even though they still didn't spend much time together. At the end of their junior year they decided to live together along with two other friends. The stars finally aligned for the two grown up ladies and from the moment they moved in together they realized that at the ripe age of four both of them were a pretty good judge of character. For the next three and half years they experienced a lot together: college graduation, vacations, moving to S.L., first jobs, boyfriends, etc... Life seemed just about perfect and the two ladies couldn't have been closer.

Then....one lady got a job in Lindon and decided the commute was a no go for her and her SUV so she suddenly left her BFF of 20 years and moved to Provo. Now one lady is alone in her bed and writing this sad but totally awesome memoir of their defying all odds friendship. Do you think we can do it again? Get your pen and paper Al, it's pen pal time!

4 comments:

Haley said...

No. Stop. Ally moved?!
i'm freaking out. i remember you coming over to babysit one time, in the afternoon, and we turned on a movie, and you went out on the deck and wrote ally a letter.
dude,
so dedicated.
so inspiring.
such a JIP that she's living in Provo.

Wait. I live in Provo!
Ally! CALL ME!

na said...
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na said...

For a second when I was scrolling down I thought to myself that his might be a "coming out" post but strangely it was almost the opposite. The fact that Ally would just leave you after all you've been through together is messed up. Sometimes I think she doesn't know what love takes.

Ally Cat said...

Yo Neil, mind your own. I know what love takes. It takes lying to the ferris wheel operator when your best friend wets her pants on the seat. It takes riding your tricycle to the park with her and risking getting picked up by the cops (which we did). It takes writing countless pen pal letters over numerous years. It takes being the best roommate, personal chef, motivational speaker, reality tv watching partner and therapist. Been there. Done that. I'm practically a professional lover. Yeah, that's right, a pro lover. I didn't want to leave her. sometimes life takes silly turns. But she's always in my heart. And no, this is NOT a coming out post. Or a coming out comment.